School isn't one of the easiest places to be yourself. When most people get to school they become a different person from whom they actually are. Not even because they want to, but because they feel they'll get judged or bullied if they don't fit in. I helped my friend overcome bullying. From 3rd-6th grade my best friend and I did everything together, from birthday parties to library visits. She was fun to be around and different, I thought; others didn't. My best friend was about 5'9 and dark skin with short hair. She didn't wear designer clothes, so people wouldn't give her a chance. My most judgmental friend disliked my best friend for no exact reason. She didn't even attempt to get to know my best friend. My judgmental friend chose to pick on my best friend about her height and said inappropriate things about how she dresses; others followed. While at my best friend's house one day, I knew something was wrong. She finally told me that at times she feels so down and insecure to where she hates who she is. When I heard that, I said everything I could to let her know how amazing she was, not only as friend but a person. I felt awful, even if she never spoke up for herself, I should've. That whole night, it was on my mind, I knew there was something I had to do. I either had to pick sides, or do something to make my judgmental friend know my best friend, just as I. That's when I got my idea. The next day I brought my idea to the principal and counselor's attention. They were all for it. When it was time for lunch I made my announcement for a “Lunchtime Mix-Up.” Students had to sit with someone they didn't know or didn't usually sit with. It was mandatory and anyone who didn't participate had to eat last. I hoped the two would end up at a table together; they actually did, and I joined them as mediator. By the end of lunch they talked out their problems without yelling or arguing. They didn't become the closest of friends but my judgmental friend stopped bullying my best friend. My principal was really proud that I decided to do this. I never let her know why I did it but I'm happy it turned out well. I was really happy because I did not want to have to choose sides. Who knows how that would've turned out? It also makes me think, who else could've been getting hurt or bullied and no one knew or paid attention? Not only did I fix the situation myself but I started something that benefited others. Not everyone wanted to participate and that was fine; they missed out. Since it was such a success, we decided to make every Monday's lunchtime a “Mix-Up Monday.” It was a free, brilliant and safe resolution. There's not one thing in this world that becomes perfect over night, so yeah it had some adjusting to get use to. Once everyone got use to it, it was more than fun. It was a life lesson. You're never gonna be exactly like someone else, but that does make you better either. Nor does it make you less valuable, you're just as amazing as anyone else.