Love is not possessive. People look love as a possission that has to be acqiured and preserved. To expect that others ought to provide it to us so that our life is filled wiht love is the biggest fallacy,which cause of much unhappiness. It is not like any other material thing to be demanded from others. Even if other persons offers us plenty of love , we may not be able to feel it. It is normal to blame others for not loving us , but much depends on oir inner self wether it has capability to love is a feeling of well and of good emotions. It is an activity that keeps us in good spirit and is liked to our emotions. Love is a divine energy. I had a very vague idea about love initially. As I tried to understand more about it , a completely dofferent perspective and thinking develops that explains the true essence of love. I have cone to know from spiritual literature that love is God and God is love. Love is nothing but inner need and the reason for feeling happiness. Fill yhe reqiurement of soul by being in love with other person. We imagine women in love as beautiful, sacrificing and never arguing. Love does not mean that there will not be any differences and the other person will always remain dumb. It does not mean that a person not very handsom e or beautiful will be less attractive and loving in nature. Life is not always about happy or sad situation. It has its own moments of ups and down. How to adjust in each situation and take it in stride will greatly affect the quality of life and relationship with other people. The perception of love as being deviod of any problem ,trouble and pain is thus misconception. People feel more and more pain as they are not able to live in love in relationship with other. Our perception of love has to change. Love should flow out of compassion for other person . Our heart ougth to generate a feeling of love and concern. Love goes with care , compassion and tolerance. In the true love towards other person , it involves absolute truhtfullness without fear of deception. This reqiures honesty with the other person. Believe something about the person but express it differently shows lack of honesty. Mind and heart have to be in unison ,when we deals with person, so as to adopt honesty in our thougth and deeds. In the matter of dealing with other people , we are influenced by our feelings of love and affection generated through our heart while our mind values the relationshio base on mutual benefit. It becomes matter of inner conflict as how much we should give in a relation and how much to recieve. At times whatever we express may not be necessarily what we feel about the person. Our relationship at times lackd sensitivity which affects true love. To be in love with others is the need of soul, same as food is the of our body. We always feel urge to connect with the person through love and feeling of intimacy, but it encompasses broader meaning of better understanding through love and comparison. Intimacy reqiures that we open our hearts and fill it with the love of other soul. Love others as your soul mates so as to be in true love with other person. Falling in love is something that all of us do in some way or another, and before you fall in love , there are tons of emotions that you are going to go through ! You might not understand some of the emotions that you feel before you fall in love, but they are beautiful feelings and you'll learn to know the patterns when you start to fall. So , you are ready to dig down deep and figure out wath emotions you are going to experience just before you fall in love. Falling in love is really something that is beautiful , but it can also be something that can be scary when you are going through it for the first time ! If you think you are falling in love, but have no idea what emotions you are going through , think about the butterflies. This is absolutely of the signs you'll feel before you fall in love. When you are in love you'll feel a huge rush of feelings and you'll feel a huge rush emotions that you might not understand, but you'll know it when you feel them. You'll feel giddy, you'll feel beautiful , you'll feel happt all the time. It truly is a feeling that everyone should experience at the same point.