The moment I was brought into this world, I was instantly branded developmentally-stunted, narcissistic and lazy. Apart from being a lethargic preemie (who forced doctors to take him out weeks early), my other crime was being born in the 80's. While newer evidence from psychology (mercifully) defends my generation as suffering from the dual struggles of discovering identity while enduring growing pains of the most rapidly-changing socioeconomic environment in human history, impulsive prejudice built up against Millennials towers over us like Mount Olympus (which, ironically, few detractors would ever climb such pre-conceptual heights to find out whether we fit their expectations). To our elders, strangers (elder strangers or was it strange elders?), we would instinctually be graced as “Generation Me”. Deep in my bones, I knew I wasn't this kind of person. Much of the joy in my youth, for instance, came from volunteering at the hospital or performing songs to soothe weary audiences of their troubles. Partying was a worthless social obligation (starting with boredom and ending with anxiety for the time I wasted). Whether my young mind knew it or not, I was determined to be something other than the selfish, entitled brats Gen Me were destined (by society) to be. It's probably why, at 24, I faced a quarter-life crisis. Days before my 25th birthday, I was unstoppable. Fresh off of earning my black belt in Shorin Ryu karate (a feat some believed beyond me), I raced to the wall in my room, placing the half-English, half-Japanese certificate above my ARCT in piano performance and my medical science degree. I gazed up at my trinity gleefully, only for my pride to vaporize instantly. I had accomplished nothing. Emptiness welled up inside me as I questioned the truth behind those certified proclamations. For all the blood, sweat, tears, time and effort I had poured into those milestones, my patient friend, Walter, from my hospital days (who always blessed me as a ‘good man' whenever we parted) was still dead. My musical performances were little more than transient pleasures. But shaking me most was that a tech at school (I had just finished my 3rd year of pharmacy) died suddenly from cancer. Surrounded by medical practitioners - and all we could offer were our sincerest condolences. Her death was the last straw: fueling me to choose cancer to cure since there's not a single person whose life hasn't been touched by the disease. Unfortunately, continuing to champion destructive treatments (yes, even Nobel Prize-winning immune therapies) in this civil war against our distorted cells (or selves, as it were) will still claim 1/4 of all Canadian cancer patients. With the impending arrival of the largest cancer patient population in history (due to aging baby boomers), 1.2 million baby boomers will die while the luckier 3.5 million boomer survivors will be forever cursed by a myriad of progressive chronic diseases. Three guesses whose generation bears this other impossible burden. Einstein once wrote: “A new type of thinking is essential if mankind is to survive and move towards higher levels”. To me, the answer was easy: non-destructive cures. If cancer isn't threatened, it won't desperately evolve against treatment. Sadly, humans have been killing cancer for centuries. Researching otherwise would be like growing a third head (a second being normal by contrast). Witnessing my (supposedly superior) assessor degrade patients with outdated data for her ego proved that my field also wasn't a solution. This left me one avenue to convey my theories somewhat seriously. Sci-Fi. The sting of incredible backlash still ails me to this day. My parents called me crazy. My colleagues shied away from my radical logic. Even my girlfriend dumped me, thinking I'd choose writing over pharmacy. All they saw was another selfish dreamer enticed by fame and fortune. All I could dream about were a hundred thousand terminal Canadian cancer patients pleading for euthanasia each year. What else could I have done? I shut out my heartache: setting out alone to show people that non-destructive cancer cures can solve this imminent medical genocide. At times I wonder whether publishing Destructive Salvation was worth it. I struggled through rejection, isolation and dark times when I believed my passing might be better on my parents. But in my waking nightmares, I uncovered strength within me: pushing me through crippling anxiety and fatigue I once thought unconquerable. Regardless of my gains or losses, my fire burns brighter than ever to make non-destructive cancer cures a reality. Whether my novel makes a difference is not just up to me anymore, (though I have faith good people will agree with me and want to help). In the meantime, my promise to all cancer patients past, present and future still stands: I'll never stop fighting to cure this disease properly. Not a bad calling for defying one's (preordained) destiny.
The following are my musings of victims of 30 year long ethnic conflict that ravaged the beautiful isle of ours, Sri Lanka, for 30 protracted years. People opted to flee the war-torn areas then by boat to India for dear life. Now that the situation is back to normal, I hope those who left will come back home to start life afresh. All that wealth, amassed in my whole life Reduced to ashes in seconds by cruel hands Now, left with all assets that barely stuffs a duffel And bereft of all choices, we await destiny to take hold. Through the dense, dawn mist The boat speeds ahead at full steam Over the horizon, we descry a vista of new life Rekindling hopes of life anew Once beached, we race for high ground Looking for peace, freedom, and equality. The reception party that welcomes us Shepherd us into camps already chock-full of fellow travellers. At last, we breathe in peace, our hearts aflutter With our cherished hopes and lofty dreams Determinedly anticipating a fresh life Though tagged with the indelible epithet ‘REFUGEE'.
" Your destiny is your choice." Dear Love, I've lost our love story I wrote on January 1st of 2015,the day I've known I have fallen inlove with you. I have fallen so much to you that I've wrote a romance story , a story I wanted to happen between us in reality. I have made a happy ending in our story. But most especially the story I have written shows how much I love you and how I am willing to wait for you for the right time that we will share a forever . I have kept the story for 3 years and waited for the happy ending to come on the fourth year. However,happiness didn't come. I've lost the story as well as I lost you. It's painful from the start for I believed the story I created will be our story at the end. We started like the beginning but we doesn't end the way I portraited to be. In reality, I didn't end to be with you instead I walk alone in the beach as the sun goes down. We walked in a different path and never met each other at the end. In your journey you met a lovely lady and take the road she's walking . While I take the road that leads me to you. I've already there when someone told me you've change direction. I did go back to still met you but I've saw both of you happily walking in a garden full of roses. My finger was bleeding because of the torn I've touch. It's painful but it's incomparable to the pain in my heart. I continue my journey when I found out you're already with the person you truly loved. But as I take a step ,I look back at you,hoping in an instant you'll leave her and take the road connecting my heart to you.However, when I look back,the smile in your lips never change. You really do love her more than you love me. My journey to my destination was hard for I think about you.But my journey was worth it for at the end of the road even though you are not there, a special reward was given to me. A reward more valuable than you, diploma! The lost of our story is not bad. For it reminds me it isn't my love story after all. My love story will still be made when right time comes with the right person. As of now,I must think of my future for it is that matters most! Love thank you! Sincerely yours, Judy