"I wanna grow old with you" A line from a song sung by the Westlife, how romantic isn't it? every individual in this world dream to have a happy ending and to have a everlasting partner that will be there cherishing every moment until they reach their very last breath. People tends to love each other because this world are composed of 3 basic emotions ,rage, fear and love (John B.Watson) but the most powerful emotion among these 3 is the emotion of love. Love can make you do anything , It moves in mysterious ways that you didn't see it coming until one day you realize that love hits you already. Love is an amazing thing in this world and one of the wonderful creation of our Almighty Father and the reason of our existence. Everyone wants to love and to be loved but why is it nowadays separations or break ups are considered to be randomly popular and vigorously continuing? If love is pure and sincere why do these people separate? Instead of having a tears of joy, why is it become tears of regret and pain? Is it possible for a couple to be loyal and stays in love to each other after a long term of being together by means of marriage? Probably mostly would say No because of what they saw or witness on other people or even in their experience that lead them to think that staying in love for that long is impossible and also the factors that they encounter while there are in a relationship and some reasons that cause their relationship weaker and lead to separation or worse divorce If they are married couple and here is the thing what are these reasons that triggers a couple to break up? based on my observation, people nowadays especially in coupled people keep blaming their partner whenever they had a problem and to the point that its either one of them don't want to listen and no one wants to swallow their pride but the question is, Is it your partner's fault or is just you yourself alone? because the truth is the problem is not your partner or other people but the problem starts within yourselves why? admit it or not the root of all the problems that a couple facing right now is the past issues that they have in their past relationships that they carried until they get into a new relationship/­married. Example of it is insecurities, insecurities can destroy trust and cause undesirable things like always doubting your partner that lead the both of you into a fight and also insecurities controlled your negative thoughts that cause you to over think.Another thing is you always manipulate her/his decision which can make your relationship weak and destructive ,you might not notice it but because of it the love that you feel turns to hatred or it slowly faded and you didn't notice it that you become selfish and that triggers the break up. Another reason why a couple break up is the expectation that set in their mind, too much expectation on your partner can cause disappointment and sometimes your partner feels like she/he is being chained/chocked in your relationship, Its better to not expect something more on your relationship if you know what your partner just can do instead of expecting just appreciate the little things and effort he/she do to make your relationship healthy and stronger.The common and popular reason why coupled separate is that people nowadays is not contended on their partner and attempt to find others to satisfy their selves without minding if they hurt other peoples feeling as long as they get want they want. To avoid and to achieve a happy and healthy relationship there is one thing that each individual must do, let go the past and believe the best than to assume the worst and let God be the center of your relationship because when you put God in your relationship no matter what obstacles and trials you've encounter you will surpass it with the help of his guidance because God is bigger than any problem in this world. Staying in love is a decision to make, an action you do and a life style to develop. Always think positive and don't expect too much.Love is not just a noun, make love as a verb because love is a verb that makes you fall in love.