Why is there no fucking happiness? ⠀ So you seem to be doing healthy lifestyle and sports, and reading books, and learning English, and self-development, and generally doing everything in a row, but there is still no happiness. Why? ⠀ There are global and momentary solutions. Well, for example, you want to sleep in the morning, and you get up and go for a run, you want to have a glass of wine, and you are NO, I don't drink, like on a Soviet poster. Or don't eat a delicious steak, but choose a salad because you're on a diet. ⠀ In that case, you have a well-developed adoption of momentary decisions, but what for? Have you ever wondered what it is for you? Have you sat with a piece of paper and thought about how you want to see your life in the distant future? What's the meaning of your life? What's the goal? Just die later or do something worthwhile? ⠀ When a person is fully focused on momentary decisions and never thought about global ones, he resembles a very efficient hamster running on a wheel. Why is he running, where, why? Dick knows him, maybe it's easier on his soul, like a sense of accomplishment. Only there was no sense, and there is no, he will not come running anywhere. ⠀ If you don't think carefully about the global vector of why you are living your life, you will live it without any meaning. ⠀ It has always been the other way around for me, I think long and hard about the general global vector of my life, where everything is going. But in the momentary pleasures I often cannot deny myself. But I'm working on it, with age it turns out better with momentary things. ⠀ Sit down and think about the MEANING of your life on a piece of paper. Are you more about the global or the momentary? ⠀ What do you think?

Mind is not erudition, not the ability to get into any conversation, on the contrary, or, as one prime minister said, by no means! Intelligence does not mean being able to keep up a conversation with scientists. If you are smart, you will understand that you do not understand anything. The mind often speaks in silence. The mind senses flaws or unpleasant moments for the interlocutor and bypasses them. The mind foresees the answer and will remain silent if it does not want to hear it. And, in general, the mind will offer something. Stupidity does not offer. Stupidity does not ask. Stupidity explains. In general, smart is better. With him you are free and lazy. With a fool you are busy all the time. You work in the sweat of your brow. He objects to you and objects ... For he is sure! And from these senseless objections you lose the strength, endurance and intelligence that you were so proud of. You cannot agree with a fool about anything. And you feel what a bad character you have. So rest smart! Relax with him, dear! beg you!

... it is both difficult and very simple at the same time no matter what color you are, height gender, views and religion your business is pure, natural radiance, worthless and worth everything be open like a window! and try to become a carrier of the virus of light and if the planet is infected with something let it be some kind of "solar flu" asks for nothing and does not hurt, transmitted by gaze or through hugs this is such international diplomacy. if you don't know what to give to another on this difficult path, just stay and shine. stop and shine.......

People, without realizing it, give us lessons that we can either deny accusing or accept and thereby expand the boundaries of our consciousness and capabilities. And I think I got my main lesson. Love cannot be painful and bitter with a corrosive sense of guilt. Can't be an anchor falling to the bottom with a string of drowning expectations. When you love a person, you cannot wish him grief, falling asleep you cannot imagine how he burns to ashes alive. When you love, you are not playing: beautiful love and an ideal woman. And you sincerely wish only good, letting go of your beloved hand. Love is gratitude and absolute acceptance. Love is when you love a person's strength, his subtle humor, sensitivity and lively heart, as much as his doubts, inattention, irrational fear of the inevitable end. When his successes are equal in importance to defeats. When you love, you owe nothing to anyone. Love is not an oath or ink in a passport. Love is a seal in the heart. And from now on there is only one love for me - unconditional. And I know the main secret: it does not appear with the arrival of a person into your life, but with its own ability to love so honestly, boldly and selflessly ... and what do you think about LOVE ?

Remember to love yourself. One of the most serious troubles that can happen to you in life is the chance of losing yourself by loving someone else too much, forgetting that you are also human and are also worthy of love. Tell me, when was the last time someone told you that to love you just like that, completely, without exception? That what you say and think is very important to this person? When was the last time someone told you that you do a great job or just took you somewhere just because you feel good there? When was that "someone" you?